As part of the Parent Training Center blog launch, I have had the opportunity to review Parenting is Heart Work by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller. I love the idea of a heart based parenting approach and this book has been on my short list for a long time. I think a lot of the Turansky/Miller books were at one time on my short list and are now on my book shelf or Kindle!
I have let bad parenting habits take root, just like the boys have some bad behavior that has become habitual. They're just automatic reactions and don't require any real thought. Together, we are working to change these harmful relational patterns. I have *reasons,* or excuses, for why things get the way they sometimes do, but I know I wouldn't accept those excuses from my boys. I really can't use them myself.
Parenting is Heart Work is divided into four sections. Each part starts off with a look at a heart issue from the Bible. We read about David, Abraham, Nehemiah, and Hezekiah and their struggles in their hearts. Each of the chapters ends with a moving prayer. You may use that or use the information covered in the chapter to raise your own prayer.
Part 1: Understanding the Heart
A Heart Story from the Bible
1. What is the Heart? (Part 1)
2. What is the Heart? (Part 2)
3. Will I or Won’t I?
4. Do It Like You Mean It
Part 2: Connecting With Your Child’s Heart
A Heart Story from the Bible
5. Emotions Have Feelings Too
6. Turn on Their Heart Lights
7. Avoiding Congestive Heart Failure
8. Making the Connection
Part 3: Working Out Heart Change
A Heart Story from the Bible
9. Talking to Yourself
10. Teaching Your Child’s Heart
11. Meditation Management
12. A Light on the Path to Heart Change
Part 4: Touching Your Child’s Heart
A Heart Story from the Bible
13. Constructive Correction
14. Turn Around for Change
15. Defibrillating Your Child’s Heart
16. Cross Your Heart
Parenting is Heart Work is published by David C Cook.
256 page paperback
Retail $15.99
Why am I telling you about Parenting is Heart Work? Well, because it is an essential part of every Parent Training Center. And what is a Parent Training Center? From the NCBPwebsite: "It's a new initiative from The National Center for Biblical Parenting. It is a church that intentionally trains parents, providing resources and tools both for discipleship of believers and for evangelism to families in the community."
The discipleship mandate applies to more than individuals. Churches can be helping and strengthening their families by equipping them with the tools necessary to reach the hearts of children. The National Center for Biblical Parenting provides the church with the guidance and support to equip families.
The cost: $200 the first year and $100 each year thereafter. (The first 20 Early Adopters can receive a discount of $50 using code PTC5D upon checkout.)
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